What’s your child’s job description?

“Job Description” is a parenting tool that ensures that children understand what is expected of them when performing a chore or job at home. Just as in the office, parents can write out a “job description” that details what is expected of a each person in the home. This reduces power struggles and conflicts because the parents are taken out of the role as “dictator”. Consequences are given for not following the job description, not because parents are the bad guy.

When it comes to older children, parents must be sure not to be condescending when they write out the description. The descriptions may need to be updated over time as responsibilities change in the family circumstances. Include older children in the writing process to increase personal responsibility. Fewer items with more detailed instruction/steps may be necessary for younger children. A job description is about teaching, not punishment. Take time to go through the steps and reward all effort and end results. Lastly, be very specific when writing the job description. Be clear about who, what, when, where and how a job is to be done.

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